You have to let go of this idealized picture of what the female body has to be. Lumps, bumps, scars and blemishes tell a story but we are so intent on losing them and transforming into someone else instead of getting to know our self. Some of the most conventionally beautiful I know are the most insecure people I have ever met. If you change yourself to conform to societies idea of beauty you will never be good enough. There will always be that other thing you need to change about yourself then before you know it the true you is buried away when that person was stunning in first place!
queen-ofcreepy said: I've been really focused on loosing weight and looking like "other girls" because I have to end up changing in front of other girls. But now that I found this blog. I don't care. I have two rolls, two times more the fabulous. I don't care about how big my thighs are. I love my body. Thank you so much for just being here. I can see you helped a lot of people.
Aww sweety! I am so glad I could help you get on the journey to loving yourself! This message has literally made my day. Keep on being a gorgeous fat babe! im always here for you if you need a boost in confidence. :)
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How to overcome the hate/hater (and really stick it to them)
hellahijabi said: s2g the amount of bs u must take about people telling you to lose weight must make you sick (i know i am)… though sadly i am over here in the us crying over the fact that i do not have uk currency. from fat girl to fat girl you are simply breathtaking :)
Yes it does get to you sometimes. I think allot of judgmental people think that being fat gives them a pass to tell you how to live your life. Recently an old friend of mine lectured me and accused me of being an idiot because I eat mcdonalds from time to time as a treat. She got so angry about it that two of my good friends had to get involved to get her to go away.
She wasn’t concerned about my well being she was out to humiliate me and my sister. She even blamed this fictitious diet she think we had for my sisters illnesses. Now if anyone is really interested then I will tell you that homemade, pure fruit smoothies are common in my house, I make most of the dinners we eat from scratch using fresh food from farmers markets.
I am a full time carer to my disabled sister, you take steroids for 14 years and see how your body changes, I would rather have her as big as a house than dead. There are some weeks were she wont leave the house atall due to mental illness but youll be damn right if im gonna take her to mcdonalds to get her outside, a place that she likes and will tell me hows shes feeling.
From two fat girls to one fat girls and all the rest of the fat girls, you are flawless. By all means, look after yourself because your worth it but never let anyone control your life because they are judgmental and not worth your time. <3